A Nigerian man who uses the Twitter handle Frazzledazzzled recently used the social media site to tell other men how to tell if a lady loves them. According to Frazzledazzzled, a woman who truly loves a man will keep pleading for him even after they have broken up.
He once said that if a woman does not beg you every day after a breakup, she never truly loves you. He thinks that this is a tried-and-true method of determining a woman’s affection for a man. He said precisely:
“If you adore her and consider her to be “the one”? Cut ties with her. Give her a month of silence. She never genuinely loved you in the first place. If she does anything else, then BEGG for you back every day.
He believes that his advice, while perhaps a little frigid to some, will ultimately prevent a great deal of suffering. He continued by clarifying that he does not intend for anyone to be rude or cruel to their partner, but rather for men to keep their distance and let the woman express her true feelings through her behaviours.
He believes that getting married to someone before having a chance to get to know them is a recipe for heartbreak and the danger of losing 50% of one’s net worth in a divorce settlement.
Since then, the tweet has gained a lot of attention, and many people have commented on it to express their opinions of Frazzledazzzled’s counsel. While some people supported him, others thought that his suggestions were flawed and may unintentionally offend someone.
Whatever one’s stance on the issue, it’s obvious that Frazzledazzzled’s tweet has spawned a fascinating discussion on the definition of love and how to tell if someone really cares about you.
